Monthly Cycling

Your menstrual cycle is a natural process made up of four key stages: Menstruation, Follicular, Ovulation, and Luteal. Knowing how these stages work helps you better understand your body and mind.

Understanding the Menstrual Cycle

Explore the four key stages of the menstrual cycle and how they impact your health and wellbeing.

Cycling

Cycling.. going in circles. Recognizing what comes before and after feels predictable. This aids in developing control over the various feelings and symptoms.

You don’t need to control every phase — just understand it, and respond with care.

Each inner season has:

  • A hormonal and biological foundation
  • Common mental and emotional states
  • Natural strengths
  • Energy patterns and challenges
  • Nutrition and movement that support it


Living in Rhythm: Your Inner Seasons


Your menstrual cycle is more than just hormones and periods — it’s a rhythmic pattern that touches every part of you: body, brain, energy, mood, motivation, and even how you see yourself.



Rather than viewing it as unpredictable or chaotic, think of your cycle as a seasonal landscape you move through each month — with each phase offering its own weather, mood, and natural rhythm. This approach can help you anticipate your needs, recognise patterns, and plan your life with more self-compassion and clarity.




The Menstrual Cycle | 4 Phases

Menstruation | Follicular Phase | Ovulation | Luteal Phase

Menstruation

Days 1-5

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Follicular

Day 5-14

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Ovulation

Day 14

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Luteal

Day 15-28

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Menstruation

Days 1-5

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Follicular

Day 5-14

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Ovulation

Day 14

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Phase 1: Menstruation

Inner Winter



Like the stillness of mid-winter, this is a time for rest, retreat, and quiet repair.

Energy turns inward now. Hormones are at their lowest, and your body is focused on shedding the uterine lining, a process that can bring fatigue, cramps, and a need for warmth. Just as nature lies still under a winter sky, you may feel best when conserving energy, avoiding overstimulation, and allowing slower mornings.

Sensory sensitivities can be stronger, making noise, bright lights, or scratchy fabrics harder to tolerate. This is a phase to choose softness — in your clothing, in your surroundings, and in how you treat yourself. Gentle movement, warm meals, and flexible schedules help you move through this phase with more ease.

Understanding the hormonal actions

Hormones low: Estrogen and progesterone have dropped

This causes the uterine lining sheds (menstrual bleeding), a period.  


When estrogen drops before and during your period, you might feel “flu-like” — heavy, achy, tired, even feverish.


This is because estrogen isn’t just a reproductive hormone, it’s also a powerful anti-inflammatory and immune modulator. 


When estrogen levels fall sharply in the late luteal phase and remain low through menstruation, the body’s natural prostaglandin production rises to trigger uterine contractions and help shed the endometrium.


Prostaglandins are chemical messengers that act a bit like local inflammatory “fire alarms.” They don’t just cause cramps, they can enter the bloodstream and affect other systems, leading to:

  • Muscle and joint aches
  • Headaches or migraines
  • Digestive changes (looser stools, nausea)
  • General malaise and fatigue

At the same time, lower estrogen can shift mast cell stability - mast cells release histamine during immune and inflammatory responses. Histamine is linked not just to allergies, but also to swelling, fatigue, and pain signalling. This is why the premenstrual/menstrual drop in estrogen can make histamine-related symptoms worse in sensitive individuals, contributing to that “heavy, unwell” feeling.

The impact of the hormones

What is happening to the neurotransmitters?  And how them impact the brain.

  • Serotonin: Lower - can affect mood, patience, and pain tolerance.
  • Dopamine: Lower - reduced motivation and reward-seeking.
  • Norepinephrine: Lower - can reduce energy and alertness.
  • GABA: Low progesterone means less calming effect ie may have less need for sleep

Likely Mental/Emotional Tone:

  • Desire for withdrawal, quiet, and reflection.
  • Lower tolerance for overstimulation.
  • May feel flat, more sensitive to criticism, or simply “low battery.”

Symptoms experienced.

Hormones low; prostaglandins high


🩸 Reproductive:

  • Menstrual bleeding (light to heavy)
  • Uterine cramps, pelvic heaviness
  • Clotting or tissue fragments

🧠 Neurological:

  • Headaches or migraines
  • Lower mental clarity (“brain fog”)
  • Sensory sensitivity (light, noise, smell)

🫀 Cardiovascular:

  • Dizziness or lightheadedness (especially if anaemic).  This requires a medical review.  Some people find taking iron when menstruating can improve blood loss/symptoms of low iron.

🍽 Digestive:

  • Diarrhoea or loose stools (prostaglandin effect)
  • Appetite changes

💪 Musculoskeletal/skin:

  • Backache, muscle aches, joint stiffness
  • Decreased co-ordination/slower speed/response time
  • More pain
  • Increased allergies/flushing

😌 Emotional/Cognitive:

  • Lower mood, irritability, emotional sensitivity
  • Desire for solitude, rest, low stimulation

🍎 Fueling & Moving:


  • Warm, iron-rich foods (red meat, lentils, leafy greens)
  • Hydration with electrolytes if bleeding heavily
  • Gentle movement: walking, stretching, restorative yoga
  • Heat packs or warm baths for muscle relaxation

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Time for rest

In many traditional cultures, menstruation was seen as a sacred pause, a time when women were given space to rest, reflect, and be cared for, recognising the deep physical and emotional renewal taking place

  • Reflection and self-assessment
  • Saying no to external demands
  • Letting go of what’s not working
  • Identifying core priorities
  • Slowing down and honouring rest

Leaving the menstrual phase, can then be a time of release and time to enter the follicular phase afresh.  

Challenges aplenty

Set yourself up to succeed.  Aim to do the following in a few days, or plan to do them before your challenging time in your luteal phase.


You may not feel like/be able to:

  • High-energy socialising or group activities
  • Complex decision-making under pressure
  • Physical endurance or intense exercise
  • Multitasking or managing overstimulation
  • Sticking to rigid schedules when energy is low

Medications can help. As an being present and stopping.

For some people, the onset of menses is a breath of fresh air. The huge flux of the luteal phase is over, now there is a quiet, and a sense of relief.  


For others it may be the pain, or the inflammatory symptoms, or the impact of low hormones.  


Some helpful tips:

Why antihistamines can help

  • Histamine blockers (like cetirizine, loratadine, fexofenadine) can reduce histamine-driven symptoms such as headaches, congestion, flushing, and fatigue.
  • In some people, they also help stabilise mood and reduce sensory overwhelm when histamine levels are high.

Why anti-inflammatories can help

  • NSAIDs (like ibuprofen, naproxen) block the COX enzymes involved in prostaglandin production.
  • By reducing prostaglandin levels, they can ease cramps, headaches, joint pain, and that general “inflamed” feeling.
  • Taking them prior to symptoms beginning ie 2-5 days before your period comes  is often more efctive than waiting until pain peaks.  Don't worry if you don't know when your period is coming - better late than never!!

💡 Pro tip: This combination approach works best when used short-term during the heaviest inflammatory window (the day before bleeding starts through the first 2–3 days of menstruation).


It’s also important to check for medical contraindications (e.g., stomach ulcers, asthma, certain heart or kidney conditions) before starting NSAIDs, and for allergies or interactions before taking antihistamines.



Phase 2: The Follicular Phase

Inner Spring



Like the first shoots of spring, this phase brings fresh energy, curiosity, and new beginnings.

Estrogen begins to rise, lifting mood, sharpening focus, and boosting motivation. You may feel more playful, ready to try new things, and open to changes in your routines. Just as spring invites planting seeds, this is a good time to start projects, learn new skills, and plan ahead. But new energy can bring restlessness - it’s easy to start many things without finishing them.

Breaks for nourishment and pacing are important so you don’t burn out before the month’s cycle is complete. Clothing feels more comfortable, energy is steadier, and socialising may feel lighter and more enjoyable.

What the hormones are doing?

Hormonal Profile: 

  • Estrogen (estradiol) rises steadily; 
  • FSH stimulates follicle growth in the ovary.
  • Progesterone remains low.

Biological Events:

  • Several ovarian follicles begin to develop; one becomes dominant.
  • Estrogen thickens the uterine lining and increases cervical mucus quality for sperm transport.

Physiologically

  • Increased estrogen improves insulin sensitivity and enhances muscle repair.

Systemic Effects: 

Rising estrogen supports neuroplasticity, boosts serotonin and dopamine, and improves verbal memory and executive function. Energy levels often climb, making it a good time for higher-intensity exercise and learning.

Hormonal Context: Rising estrogen, low progesterone.

Neurochemical Profile:

  • Dopamine: Rising - increases motivation, curiosity, and learning drive.
  • Serotonin: Rising - improved mood stability and resilience.
  • Norepinephrine: Rising - more alert, energised, and confident.
  • GABA: Still low - higher mental energy but less sedation.

Likely Mental/Emotional Tone:

  • Clearer thinking, more open to change and new ideas.
  • Increased social confidence.
  • Better focus and ability to plan.

Fueling & Moving:

  • Balanced meals with complex carbs for energy
  • Higher-protein intake to support muscle building
  • Try new or higher-intensity workouts (strength, cardio)
  • Use this phase for meal prep and habit setting


The Symptoms Experienced

🩸 Reproductive:

  • Light residual spotting (early phase)
  • Increased fertile cervical mucus later in the phase

🧠 Neurological:

  • Improved concentration and memory
  • Sharper reaction times
  • Less headaches
  • Free from brain fog
  • For those ADHDers - less stimulants are needed

🫀 Cardiovascular:

  • Stable or lower resting heart rate
  • Improved heart rate variability

🍽 Digestive:

  • More stable digestion compared to menstruation
  • Improved tolerance for varied foods
  • Less cravings

💪 Musculoskeletal:

  • Better muscle recovery and strength gains

😌 Emotional/Cognitive:

  • Rising motivation, creativity, and curiosity
  • More sociable, willing to try new things

Your time to shine

This is the time of the month to shine.  The time of the month when females actually do have a physiological advantage over men!  


Make the most of it, particularly if this is your happy space!

  • Starting new projects or habits
  • Learning new skills
  • Socialising in small, energising doses
  • Planning and organising future tasks
  • Experimenting without fear of failure
  • Building muscle at the gym
  • Thriving on less sleep

Do you need to make the most of the energy? Risk of burning out...

  • Slowing down when your energy is rising
  • Finishing old projects (temptation to start new ones instead)
  • Pacing yourself - risk of overcommitting
  • Sitting still for long periods
  • Accepting mistakes while learning new things

Start your new routines here!  There is no excuse!!

Phase 3: Ovulation

Inner Summer



Like high summer in full bloom, this is a time of visibility, connection, and peak vitality.

With estrogen peaking and a small boost of testosterone, your social energy, verbal fluency, and confidence are often at their highest. Just as summer days invite gathering and celebration, this phase can feel full of opportunity - for connection, creativity, and physical performance.

You may find it easier to speak up, collaborate, and take on active projects. The flip side is that it’s easy to overschedule, overexert, or forget to rest. Body temperature runs slightly warmer, so breathable clothing, hydration, and joint care can help. Meals may need planning ahead, as busy days can make regular eating harder.

Days: ~13–15 (varies) - what your hormones are doing?

Hormonal Profile: Estrogen peaks; luteinizing hormone (LH) surges to trigger ovulation. Testosterone also rises briefly.


Biological Events:

  • The dominant follicle releases an egg.
  • The egg travels down the fallopian tube; fertile window is ~5 days before and 1 day after ovulation.
  • Basal body temperature rises slightly after ovulation due to progesterone increase.

Systemic Effects: High estrogen increases oxytocin, social bonding, and verbal fluency. Testosterone can boost libido, motivation, and competitive drive. Some people retain fluid around ovulation, which is temporary.

Hormonal Context: Estrogen peaks; short-lived testosterone surge; LH surge.

Neurochemical Profile:

  • Dopamine: High - drive, motivation, pleasure in achievement.
  • Serotonin: High - emotional stability, optimism.
  • Norepinephrine: High - mental alertness, verbal fluency.
  • Oxytocin: Boosted by estrogen - empathy, trust, bonding.
  • GABA: Starts to rise post-ovulation — gentle calming effect begins.

Likely Mental/Emotional Tone:

  • Peak confidence, sociability, and expressiveness.
  • Comfortable in high-energy, outward-facing roles.
  • May overcommit due to feeling “invincible.”

Fueling & Moving:

  • Protein-rich meals to maintain muscle and energy
  • Hydration, especially in warm environments or with high activity
  • High-energy workouts (HIIT, heavy lifting, sport)
  • Protect joints and avoid overextension during flexibility training

Estrogen peak; LH & testosterone surge


🩸 Reproductive: Mid-cycle discharge — clear, stretchy, egg-white consistency and possible ovulation pain (mittelschmerz).


🧠 Neurological:

  • Verbal fluency and communication skills peak
  • Heightened sensory awareness (can be positive or overwhelming)

🫀 Cardiovascular:

  • Slight rise in body temperature after ovulation
  • Possible fluid retention

🍽 Digestive: Generally stable, though mild bloating may occur


💪 Musculoskeletal:

  • Peak strength and endurance and ligaments slightly more elastic, there is a higher injury risk if overexerting

😌 Emotional/Cognitive:

  • High energy, confidence, empathy, and connection
  • Increased libido

This time isn't easier for everyone, but if it is for you - make the most of it!

  • Speaking up and expressing ideas
  • Networking, team projects, collaboration
  • Creative brainstorming and problem-solving
  • Physical performance and endurance activities
  • Deep connection and intimacy

This can be a hard time, however others thrive

  • Recognising when to rest — easy to run on adrenaline
  • Quiet, focused, solo work — mind drawn to people and activity
  • Saying no to extra tasks or invitations (especially if enjoyable)
  • Wearing structured or restrictive clothing in warmer body temps
  • Avoiding overscheduling social time
  • Keeping meals balanced when busy and on the go
  • Monitoring body mechanics to avoid overuse or joint strain

Phase 4: The Luteal Phase

Inner Autumn



Days: ~16–28 (until menstruation starts)

Hormonal Profile: Progesterone rises after ovulation as the corpus luteum forms; estrogen dips, then has a smaller secondary rise before both drop pre-menstruation.


Biological Events:

  • Progesterone prepares the uterine lining for potential implantation
  • If no pregnancy occurs, the corpus luteum breaks down, hormone levels fall, and menstruation begins.
  • Progesterone increases body temperature and can slow digestion.

Systemic Effects: 

  • Progesterone boosts GABA activity (calming neurotransmitter), which can help with sleep early in the phase. 
  • In late luteal, falling progesterone and estrogen may lower serotonin and dopamine, contributing to PMS or PMDD symptoms. 
  • Metabolic rate increases by 100–300 kcal/day.


Understanding the impact of hormones on the body and mind

Hormonal Context: Progesterone dominant early, drops late; estrogen dips and has a secondary rise mid-phase before both drop pre-menstruation.


Neurochemical Profile:

  • GABA: Higher in early luteal — calming, aiding sleep, but can cause sluggishness.
  • Serotonin: Stable early luteal, then drops late luteal — may trigger low mood or irritability.
  • Dopamine: Can drop in late luteal — reduces motivation and reward sensitivity.
  • Norepinephrine: May drop late luteal — lower energy, focus, and stress tolerance.

Likely Mental/Emotional Tone:

  • Early luteal: focused, detail-oriented, protective of energy.
  • Late luteal: prone to overthinking, sensitivity to rejection, mood swings, cravings.
  • Stronger need for boundaries and restorative habits.

Symptoms - the experience in your body


Why? Progesterone dominant early, drops late


🩸 Reproductive:

  • Premenstrual spotting (late luteal)
  • Breast swelling/tenderness
  • Libido drops in the early luteal phase.  For some late luteal it starts to increase

🧠 Neurological:

  • Migraines - either at ovulation, or premenstrual
  • Late luteal: Pins and needles 

🫀 Cardiovascular:

  • Possible increased heart rate
  • Fluid retention, puffiness
  • Dizziness/light headed

🍽 Digestive:

  • Slower digestion, constipation (progesterone effect)
  • Increased cravings for high-carb/high-fat foods
  • Reflux/indigestion

💪 Musculoskeletal:

  • Joint stiffness or aches (especially if inflammatory conditions present)
  • Increased risk of injuries
  • More body pain
  • Body may feel heavier, sluggish, stuck in the mud

😌 Emotional/Cognitive:

  • Early luteal: calm focus, task completion; satisfaction from completing tasks
  • Late luteal: brain fog, forgetfulness, overwhelm; irritability, anxiety, mood swings, lower tolerance for stress.  No motivation.  Exercise is hard

PMS/PMDD symptoms if sensitive to hormone change

Many things do not come easier now

Give yourself grace, space, understanding and time.  

Prioritise your body's needs.  Even though sometimes it can be hard to figure it out.


In the early luteal phase you may be able to finish tasks and tidy up loose ends and spotting errors, fine-tuning, editing work.  But this productivity generally doesn't persist. 


However, often it is best to:

  • Setting boundaries and saying no without guilt
  • Organising, decluttering, and preparing for rest (if you can get the motivation)
  • Self-protection and creating order

Life often feels harder

  • Planning meals and food preparation — harder to think ahead or decide
  • Staying on top of household tasks like laundry or tidying
  • Booking or attending appointments (especially if sensory-heavy)
  • Pain from hair removal (waxing, threading) feels more intense
  • Wearing certain clothes due to bloating, breast tenderness, or skin sensitivity
  • Getting dressed — especially if textures or fit feel “wrong”
  • Managing social or work commitments when comfort needs are high
  • Regulating mood under sudden stress (especially late luteal)
  • Managing cravings and blood sugar dips